Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Brown Belts





The boys earned their brown belts this past December.  The next belt is Red and then the coveted Black Belt.  Enrolling these two easily influenced boys has been money well spent. They have learned much more then just punching and kicking.  For example, at the beginning and the conclusion of each practice the team chants the following:  

"Who wants to be a black belt leader?" asks master Youngman.    "I do sir," replies the kids.  "What do you need?" asks master Youngman.  The kids chant -
"I need knowledge in my mind,  honor in my heart ,strength in my body, and make good friends. Practice leadership, discipline, stay very very focused.  Listen to parents the first time."  

"What will you grow up to be?" asks master Youngman.  "A Black belt leader sir."

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

IronMan in Jamie's words

This was an article that Jamie wrote for his employers Wellness newsletter.  

We all have dreams.  For years I watched the televised version of the Ironman triathlon in Kona Hawaii.  I dreamed of hearing Mike Reilly, the voice of Ironman call my name. My dream was put into perspective 4 years ago when my older cousin completed the race.   I started to realize that if he could do it, so could I; maybe.

The Ironman triathlon consists of a 2.4 mile swim, 112 mile bike ride and a 26.2 mile run; in that order –in one day.  Needless to say, it took discipline, dedication and support to tackle this challenge.  One of the keys to any physical event; be it a 5k, 10k, marathon or an Ironman, is to have a plan. I hired a coach, signed up for advanced swimming lessons and scheduled a year of practice events. My coach was instrumental in holding me to my plan. He knew what I needed to do, when I needed to do it and how much I needed to do.  I relied on his guidance and encouragement for a year prior to the race. 

When race day came it was an experience that is hard to describe.  Excitement, anxiety and adrenaline consumed one ordinary guy from MN with the goal of being able to wear the coveted label – Ironman (not the gold and red ironman –but I would take that label as well).

What you may be surprised to read is that it was a team effort.  Sure, I was the one that was going to endure the race but I relied heavily on others to get me through.  I knew if I did my part they would do theirs.  When I seconded guess myself during training my coach ensured me that I was on the right path.  When I had to train for 6 hours on a Saturday my wife was there to watch the children.  When I was getting lonely and tired on mile 90 of the bike ride or trudging along mile 13 of the run there was a blob of people with my name on their t-shirts (affectionately known as my family) cheering my name, encouraging me to keep moving.  Knowing that back home, my co-workers, friends and family were all tracking my progress online was a powerful thought throughout the day and kept me focused.  Everyone played a role in my success.

What I learned is the only limit to what I could accomplish was the limits I placed on myself. So pick your next challenge and reach farther than you think- you will get there. 

Most importantly, I was able to give my disabled father (a Vietnam veteran) and my two boys a high five just before I crossed the finish line after 15 hours of endurance.  That feeling cannot be put eloquently into words other than to say –
 “yes, the sacrifice was worth it.”

Riley Myles


Sometimes Riley insists on wearing Jamie's old Centennial High School hat.

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Ice fishing with dad





Monday, January 6, 2014

2013 School Pictures

Riley Preschool

Reagan 1st Grade

Christmas morning 2013



Christmas morning 2013 was ushered in with picturesque snowflakes falling as the boys sat in front of the Christmas tree waiting patiently to see if they landed on Santa’s “nice” list.  I secretly love December because of the Santa trump card.  Phrases exit my mouth such as “I wouldn’t do that, Santa could be watching” or “Santa certainly would not appreciate you hitting your bother.”  Come January I am all out of verbal ammo which results in the over utilization of an oldie but goody, “because I said so.”  Regardless, the boys ripped into presents while Jamie and I masterfully extracted the toys from the packaging.  After a few years, one becomes rather proficient in getting through the clam packaging, multiple twisty ties, masking tape and clear rubber bindings in record time without leaking even one word of profanity.

Most notably, every year it gets more fun watching them open their presents and hearing Riley yell the inevitable, “this is what I have always wanted” after each present is unveiled.  As a young child I could never understand why my mom thought it was so fun to watch my brother and I open presents when she knew she wasn’t getting anything… Now I understand.